Recognizing Child Abuse
The following signs/behaviors in a child may signal the presence of child abuse or neglect:
- Sudden changes in behavior or school performance;
- Has not received help for physical or medical problems brought to the parents’ attention;
- Has learning problems (or difficulty concentrating) that cannot be attributed to specific physical or psychological causes;
- Is always watchful, as though preparing for something bad to happen;
- Lacks adult supervision;
- Is overly compliant, passive, or withdrawn; or
- Comes to school or other activities early, stays late, and does not want to go home.
The following signs/behaviors of a Parent may signal they are abusive:
- Shows little concern for the child;
- Denies the existence of, or blames the child for the child’s problems in school or at home;
- Asks teachers or other caretakers to use harsh physical discipline if the child misbehaves;
- Sees the child as entirely bad, worthless, or burdensome;
- Demands a level of physical or academic performance the child cannot achieve; and
- Looks primarily to the child for care, attention, and satisfaction of emotional needs.
In addition, both Parent and Child may have the following signs/behaviors:
- Rarely touch or look at each other;
- Consider their relationship entirely negative; or
- State that they do not like each other.
Types of Abuse
The following are some signs often associated with particular types of child abuse and neglect: physical abuse, neglect, sexual abuse, and emotional abuse. It is important to note, however, these types of abuse are more typically found in combination than alone. A physically abused child, for example, is often emotionally abused as well, and a sexually abused child also may be neglected.
Signs of Physical Abuse
Consider the possibility of physical abuse when the child…
- Has unexplained burns, bites, bruises, broken bones, or black eyes.
- Has fading bruises or other marks noticeable after an absence from school.
- Seems frightened of the parents and protests or cries when it is time to go home.
- Shrinks at the approach of adults.
- Reports injury by a parent or another adult caregiver.
Consider the possibility of physical abuse when the parent or other adult caregiver…
- Offers conflicting, unconvincing, or no explanation for the child’s injury.
- Describes the child as “evil,” or in some other very negative way.
- Uses harsh physical discipline with the child.
- Has a history of abuse as a child.
Signs of Neglect
Consider the possibility of neglect when the child…
- Is frequently absent from school.
- Begs or steals food or money.
- Lacks needed medical or dental care, immunizations, or glasses.
- Is consistently dirty and has severe body odor.
- Lacks sufficient clothing for the weather.
- Abuses alcohol or other drugs.
- States that there is no one at home to provide care.
Consider the possibility of neglect when the parent or other adult caregiver…
- Appears to be indifferent to the child.
- Seems apathetic or depressed.
- Behaves irrationally or in a bizarre manner.
- Is abusing alcohol or other drugs.
Signs of Sexual Abuse
Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the child…
- Has difficulty walking or sitting.
- Suddenly refuses to change for gym or to participate in physical activities.
- Reports nightmares or bed wetting.
- Experiences a sudden change in appetite.
- Demonstrates bizarre, sophisticated, or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior.
- Becomes pregnant or contracts a venereal disease, particularly if under age 14.
- Runs away.
- Reports sexual abuse by a parent or another adult caregiver.
Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the parent or other adult caregiver…
- Is unduly protective of the child or severely limits the child’s contact with other children, especially of the opposite sex.
- Is secretive and isolated.
- Is jealous or controlling with family members.
Signs of Emotional Maltreatment
Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the child…
- Shows extremes in behavior, such as overly compliant or demanding behavior, extreme passivity, or aggression.
- Is either inappropriately adult (parenting other children, for example) or inappropriately infantile (frequently rocking or head-banging, for example).
- Is delayed in physical or emotional development.
- Has attempted suicide.
- Reports a lack of attachment to the parent.
Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the parent or other adult caregiver…
- Constantly blames, belittles, or berates the child.
- Is unconcerned about the child and refuses to consider offers of help for the child’s problems.
- Overtly rejects the child.
Statewide: (303) 866-5932
Denver County: (720) 944-3000
Emergency Calls: 911
Identifying Child Abuse and Neglect
Resources and information from the Child Welfare Information Gateway website about signs and symptoms of child maltreatment, including training resources.
Preventing Child Abuse and Neglect
Resources and information from the Child Welfare Information Gateway website.
This information used with permission from Child Welfare Information Gateway.
Delinquency Handbook for Parents & Guardians
This handbook, produced entirely pro-bono, is the result of a collaborative effort by Denver Juvenile Court Best Practice Team, Bradley Bittan Esq., Denver CASA Pat Benhmida: and the students of graphic design instructor Ed Popovitz at The Art Institute of Colorado. Funding for printed, bound handbooks has been generously provided by the Second Juvenile District Senate Bill 94 Juvenile Services Planning Committee.